Certainly true about the "yoke" I haven't taken an actual "vacation" in 5 years, and don't see one coming in the near future. Sure I get a couple days for Christmas etc. when the shop is closed but a week off to just go and do what I want........not anymore. Maybe 5 more years down the road the business will be at a point I can afford that luxury.
We are building, growing and even expanding (amazing in this economy---I ain't complaining you understand) but it takes 12 hour days everyday to keep the bus rolling.

I don't know that I will ever retire, not really in my DNA. Father and Grandfathers worked till they dropped (one Grandfather was still selling real estate at 91) its just what we do. And I dare say if you had made him stop, he probably wouldn't have made it to 94. Dad was forced to retire after 35 years with Prudential, went across the street (literally) and got a position with New York Life, worked there till the end. But i do sometimes like to daydream about retiring. Though deep down I feel its something I might never experience, voluntarily anyway lol.