RIP old friend

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A day of very mixed feelings, extreme sadness linked into laughter and personal reunions.

The background, when I was 18 and riding my first “big bike†a 650 Triumph one of the characters that I became friendly with was Vic, a man who I found out later was in fact 10 years older than the rest of our growing group of 18 and 19 year old motorcycle novices. Vic was small of stature but a big man in all other ways. He lived beachfront and was already a veteran from the 50’s surfing scene. We’d go away in groups of 5 or 6 for weekend trips on our British bikes and camp in the open. He taught me that beer was a legitimate breakfast food. He taught me how to ride for miles standing on the seat of my bike. On one interstate week away his Fastback Commando blew a head gasket and because of warranty issues we put it onto a train and sent it home, I doubled him for the rest of the week. We had some great times and I don’t have time to express just how big his personality was. As is the norm once my children started to arrive and I was focused on renovating houses and being responsible we drifted apart but I’d bump into him from time to time we’d catch up with all of the news. About 7 years ago I moved and lived only just around the corner from him so we’d chat when he was (at 64 years of age) rollerblading past or coming home from a 10 hour walk through the mountain just behind our houses. Unfortunately at this time I noticed a slight tremble in his hands which was diagnosed as Parkinson’s. He couldn’t ride any more and focused his time on surfing and long power walks. Only 2 mths ago he became too affected to surf and speech was becoming a problem. Vic chose the time and place to check out and most of us salute his chosen exit as we did his larger than life71 years of life.

I was privileged to be one of a small number that spoke at the service today and a number of survivors from our youth had an emotional but enjoyable reunion with a few beers.

Never to be forgotten by those that crossed his path, cheers Vic.
 
tis a real shame when a lover of life is taken out by a shithouse disease like that SAD

Yep, honestly I have never known another man in his early 70's with muscles and a six pack most 20 year olds would love to have. Another thing, this was the first service that I've been to where the fact that he pulled the pin was almost celebrated rather than hidden. He wasn't prepared to be a burden on his wife and sons, he lived with it until he decided it was time. In similar circumstances I'd like to be as big a man as he was.
 
A very well write tribute, Kevin, and obviously from the heart. I am sorry for your loss. A true friend is a treasure and the loss is tough. I would love to have known him.
 

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