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Today marks three months since I lost my beloved Mae Lyne. I promised that I would post the cause of death when I found out. I debated with myself about posting it in the memorial thread; but in the end I decided to post it here in the Lounge.

We finally got the complete medical examiner's report (coroner's report). Mae Lyne died of kidney failure. Her kidneys were failing, which we did not know. Her other symptoms masked the signs of kidney failure. Her kidneys were not properly filtering her meds and the resulting medical cocktail building in her system simply put her to sleep and into death. It was painless. Because her kidneys were not filtering properly her medication levels were too high across the board. Had this been detected, the doctors would have reduced her dosages accordingly.

The doc's monitored her liver because her seizure medication is a known cause of liver damage. Her liver showed some damage, but nothing lethal or even serious. Two of her meds are also know to be hard on the kidneys as they contain Tylenol. This is most likely what caused the damage. The Medical Examiner told us that had she lived, she would have had to go on dialysis for the rest of her life - something that she would probably have refused to do.

God was merciful to her and spared her a further loss of the quality of life and a painful, slow death. He spared me the agony of watching her suffer. As much as I miss her, I am so thankful God took her home and healed her completely. I certainly did not want her to suffer. She also had some other problems that she and I were unaware of that contributed to her decline. I still miss her every single day; but I am healing and looking forward to the future.
 
I'm glad you posted the explanation as that was something I wondered about but didn't want to ask....remember my Brother is a Pathologist and my Dad was a Funeral Director.

You were both spared from worse, in your own way....for that be thankful.
 
Yes, decisions regarding quality of life are terrible to have to make
Thankfully you were spared the anguish.

You are spot on, Harry; I am very thankful I was not faced with that decision.


I'm glad you posted the explanation as that was something I wondered about but didn't want to ask....remember my Brother is a Pathologist and my Dad was a Funeral Director.

You were both spared from worse, in your own way....for that be thankful.

Absolutely correct my friend. She and I were both spared from a lot worse.


My thoughts exactly. I don't think I will try to add more as the words fail me at this time. May God Bless you my friend.

Thank you, Tony; I appreciate it.



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Thanks for posting this Carl and you are right the Lord save her from a lot of future suffering and she is now healed and in a good place

You are welcome, Dave. I am truly grateful God spared her from further decline and suffering.


Resting In Peace.

Amen and thank you, Silli.


God bless and keep. Forever watching over you in peace.

Thank you, Gromit; and thank you for caring.


Thanks for posting CarlS.

Forever in our thoughts.

You are welcome, G; and I thank you for caring.

To all, I am doing much better. I still miss her every single day; but I have a positive outlook and I am looking forward to the rest of my life. I intend to enjoy it and make the most of it. I had planned a road tip from Florida to Seattle Washington for next summer. I was going to fly Mae Lyne to various stops (our kids) and fly her home. This is one of the reasons that I bought the Tiger. I am still planning to make that trip early this coming summer. I have Dad's care arranged for. I will take a month or so to make the trip out there and back.So, God willing, I will make trip early next summer.
 
If I am able to ride I'll intercept you along your route.

I would be honored. If not, I hope to visit you on the return leg. I will be heading out there via the Denver are and visit my youngest daughter and her family.


Thats a huge trip
will a month be enough ?

It is a huge trip. My route going out there is 4000 miles. I won't spend much time in one place. If it stretches into six or seven weeks, that is OK. I only have this shot at it. :y2: When I can't sponge off of family, I will camp.



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The fact it went the way it did rather than a long painful illness is a blessing. We should all be so lucky. Most people don't leave this world so peacefully. I'm pretty sure i have kidney damage myself. But i too will refuse help if that time comes. I wouldn't blame her at all if it had come to that decision. Dialysis is no way to live.

Knowing this i guess it must be the reason for that initial time when you found her unconscious too, which never was diagnosed right?
 
I agree Dale. She was blessed being spared that and I was blessed by not having to watch her suffer a painful death. That would have done me in.

You are correct about the reason for her being unconscious was never diagnosed. I suspect you are right in your assumption. The kidney disease also explains the increasing back pain she was feeling that the doc's attributed to further curvature of the spine since she was already having back pain and being treated for it. Bottom line, everything and everyone has a season. It was her time. I am surely glad for her season in my life. I was, indeed, blessed with the faithful love of a good woman.



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