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As our service members die overseas, we have people like this women who think it is inconvenient that she had to stop for a funeral possession.

Please read this Sheriffs response, God bless him, and all who serve. If you have a chance to tell him thank you, that would be nice too.

This took place in a conservative, rural Florida County. However this county is adjacent to Leon County which hosts the State Capitol and two universities. Leon County is considerably more liberal than Jefferson County and some folks who work in the Tallahassee area live in Jefferson County.

Jefferson County Sheriff defends soldier's funeral procession
Staff and Wire report


09/10/2009

Updated: 3:38 p.m. Thursday
JEFFERSON COUNTY — The Jefferson County sheriff has offered a stern response to a woman complaining she was inconvenienced by a procession accompanying a soldier's casket.

The woman wrote an e-mail to Jefferson County Sheriff Glenn Boyer after she had a hard time driving around the procession escorting the casket of Sgt. William Woods, who was killed by Taliban fighters in Afghanistan.

In his response, Boyer called the complaint self-serving and noted that her inconvenience was of little consequence considering what America's soldiers go through

http://www.stltoday.com/stltoday/news/stories.nsf/missouristatenews/story/4CBF361CCA9F41328625762D0054CCCE?OpenDocument

The original email was sent to Sheriff Glenn Boyer on Thursday, August 27. Below is the citizen's email followed by Sheriff Boyer's response.

I tried to call you earlier this morning, but was unable to obtain your extension from the voice mail system as I was not sure of your first name or correct spelling of your last.

I was inadvertently in this procession as I was leaving work on 270 from Creve Coeur and proceeding on Hwy. 30 West. I have some issues and complaints. I called the Sheriff's office last night, but the officer in charge would not speak with me. His name was Corp. Curtis. I am in no way complaining about your officers. I, however, was not treated very fairly when I called last evening because I wanted a ticket/complaint/or at least a slap on wrist for the people involved. Let me explain:

1) This procession should never have been held during rush hour traffic! Hwy. 270 is dangerous and people drive way too fast and there is too much traffic. This soldier's certainly would not have want his family hurt on the interstate taking him to Cedar Hill. People were dead-stopping on the interstate even though the procession was in the far right lane, the other three lanes just stopped. There were many near accidents and possibly were after I drove through. I was in the 2nd to left lane, no way obstructing the funeral procession.

2) I exited off on Gravois (30 W), far right lane. Your police officers went in the left lane to stop any additional on-coming traffic so the procession could exit off 270 into the LEFT lane of 30. Again, I was in the right lane. The St. Louis County officer stopped and turned around at Weber Hill to return on 270 after the procession passed.

3) The road was not closed. (Only for president as far as I know.) Again, the road was not closed. Your officers only had the left lane blocked/closed for the funeral. All other traffic by MO law can proceed as long as they do not interfere (weave in and out )with funeral procession.
Let me say, that I did not know what was happening. I knew the did not have Kennedy coming to STL, at least not yesterday. I was at work all day. No news. Nothing reported on the traffic on the radio driving home.

Anyway, two of these dirty, nasty, renegade, who knows what motorcycle men that were escorting the procession proceeded to stop in front of me in the right lane on Gravois. I had to stop in the middle of an intersection. They proceeded to scream and yell at me about respecting this soldier, etc. One of them climbed off his motorcycle and came over to me and stuck his head in my car continuing to scream at me. I asked him what this was for and he told me I needed to stop as the officers had the road blocked and show some dang respect. #1, the road was not blocked, the funeral was in the other lane. #2, I am proud of our country and sorry for the family, but they had no idea where I was going or anything else. I could have a child at day-care, I could have been sick and racing to the bathroom, I could have a sick parent waiting for me, etc., etc.

#3, They are not law enforcement and had no right to stop in the lane on Gravois and they had no right to scream at me and intimidate and threaten me. If I would have had my pepper spray, I would have used it on this nasty man! He is just a big hoo ha that is not even related to this soldier. The other man did not get off his scooter, but was along side of my passenger window screaming.

I left an abusive husband 1 1/2 years ago and I did not need this intimidation. I was livid and shaking!!

My son is a deputy sheriff in another MO county. I respect police officers. It was not their fault as they were busy with traffic, but I called to make them aware of what was going on during this thing. The St. Louis County officer saw it but of course he was out of jurisdiction.

However, I called last night and your office asked me if I knew about this soldier. Again, I am sorry about him, but I am a taxpayer. I got a speeding ticket a few months ago and paid the fine. I do not deserve to be treated like this. I wanted to let the officer know how these men were acting. Also, they were driving into the turnarounds on Hwy. 30 and then back onto the road. the funeral was much further ahead. One of them nearly got hit by me and other people almost hit him and another as well. I wanted to lodge a complaint about them why they were still there, but no one in your office would take any information or do anything.

This was not a military funeral, even though it was a soldier. There were not military vehicles. It was a funeral and the road was not closed, the lane was closed, I was in the other lane and again, these nasty men had no right to do this and I would have liked them to get a ticket!
I am sorry for the soldier and his family but you cannot let these motorcycle renegades do this. They could have caused several accidents and I really wanted them arrested. If they had any respect for the soldier they would have dressed better and not looked and acted so scuzzy.

Thank you.


My comments:

"The road was not closed. (Only for president as far as I know.) Again, the road was not closed." I have attended several KIA funerals in the Florida panhandle; Law enforcement does indeed close the roads except for traffic going in the opposite direction on an interstate. All lanes in the direction the procession is traveling are closed by a rolling road block.

"This was not a military funeral, even though it was a soldier." I guess she thinks if a funeral is not held on a military base and the burial is not in a National Cemetery, it is not a military funeral.

"There were not military vehicles" What did she expect, tanks, Bradleys, and Humvees? She obviously did not notice the government fleet vehicles.

The Sheriff's emailed replay:

From:
Glenn Boyer/JEFFCO
Date: 08/31/2009 02:05 PM

Subject: Re: Fw: Re: Funeral Procession - Yesterday p.m.

--------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Dear XXXXX:

Yes, you do deserve a response and I am willing to give you one.

I would like to say that I am sorry for the inconvenience we caused you during the funeral procession of Sergeant 1st Class William B. Woods, but I cannot do so. I would ask instead that you take a moment of your time to take into consideration the scope of the event. Your very right to complain was the reason Sgt. Woods fought for his country and ultimately gave his life; thus making the ultimate sacrifice for you and your family.

Let me introduce you to him. After high school, Sergeant Woods entered the Marine Corps. After his contract was up, he joined the Army, where he became a Green Beret. He comes from a long line of military members in his family. His Uncle is a Vietnam Veteran and two of his grandfathers were World War II Veterans. His job in the Army was one of the most dangerous jobs - he was a sniper looking for the bad guys to stop before they killed or injured one of our soldiers. He has numerous decorations to include the Bronze Star and the Purple Heart.

He grew up in Catawissa and was best known by his middle name, Brian. He enjoyed the outdoors, playing sports, and skydiving. He had a wife, Elizabeth, and two daughters, whom he loved dearly. He was a soft-spoken, level-headed young man who was proud to serve his country no matter what the risk. Now, I did not know him, but I wish I did. I am quoting from newspaper articles written about him.

At the young age of 31, he was shot during an engagement with Taliban forces in Ghanzi , Afghanistan . He died of his wounds in Germany on August 16, with his family by his side. He did not choose the time of his death, nor did he choose the time his remains would be brought back to his home in Catawissa. He just did his duty. He was quite a young man.

While you were being inconvenienced in your car on your way home, there were soldiers just like Sergeant Woods carrying 100+ pounds of equipment in 120 degree heat, up some mountain or in the middle of some desert. They will shower out of a helmet liner if they get the chance. They will eat a cold meal of MRE's; something most people would consider garbage. They cannot text their family or friends, or go to McDonalds, or watch TV. They can only continue the mission and look out after the guy to the left and right of them. They don't complain because they know they volunteered. The only thing they ask is that we do not forget the sacrifices they have made.

One of the dirty "big hoo ha" bikers, as you call them, was Brian's uncle, a Vietnam Veteran, like myself. We were not treated with a homecoming. We were spit on and called baby killers by a misguided public. Brian's uncle was giving him the respect that he, himself, never received when he came back and I, for one, am proud of him for doing so.

You say that your brother is a deputy in another Missouri county. I am sure he would be proud to escort the casket of a fallen solder, the same as he would that of a fallen officer. I am also sure he would not agree with your complaint about being inconvenienced.

My mother recently passed away. She was a World War II Veteran, serving the U.S. Army. She would say, maybe you should pick up Sergeant Woods' ruck sack and carry on where he left off. Then you could see first hand what it really is to be inconvenienced.

Per your request, I will forward your complaint to the Prosecuting Attorney's Office for his review. It is my personal opinion that your complaint is self-serving and without merit.

Sheriff Oliver "Glenn" Boyer


Thank you, Sheriff Boyer.
 
I guess some people just don,t have a clue what Inconvenience really is , just what happens in their private world. Me me me , certainly describes this lady.
 
This doesn't surprise me in the least. Was she going to miss 5 minutes of her soap opera or something really important like that?

I'm glad the Sheriff put her in her place. His best line was that Green Beret died for her right to complain.

Like you Carl, I got a kick out of her saying it wasn't a "military funeral". Of COURSE it was!! He was an active duty soldier killed in action. He didn't JUST get military honors delivered by the local VFW or Legion Post.....he got the REAL THING from active duty personnel. But I guess she would have felt better if a column of M1 Abrams tanks were clogging up the roadway??
 
Somebody else broke the ice on this one, then I chimed in. Sounds a bit fishy. I've never seen a funeral procession (with the exception of a president) where the other lanes are prohibited from continuing (except ingersections on the route that are blockaded).

IF THE STORY IS TRUE, the bikers were out of line to harass the woman.

I'll bet within a couple of days, Snopes will have the poop on it.
 
I very good response the sheriff gave to the mail good on him.

However you have to consider the situation at hand. Here we have a women that was in an abusive relationship and her perception of men may be a bit different to most. Not being there it is a bit hard to say what went down but just thinking about it this is what I have experienced myself.

People generally see bikers to be of a rough breed and are at time quite intimidated by them. I know I have been seen as intimidating when I have been in my biking kit and that was the last thing on my mind. I know if I have to communicate with anyone while on or riding my bike I do so in a loud way to be heard over the sound of the bike. Also you tend to be a bit hard of hearing yourself due to the helmet and the sound of the bike so yes you may be quite loud to others. Is this shouting we I suppose you could perceive it to be.

Now as for the women here she is going home thinking about all sorts of stuff and next thing she is in the middle of this swarm of men riding bikes looking scary. I can just imagine straight off this put her into a flat spin not quite knowing what to expect or do.
 
This one was reported in [quote author=grandpaul link=topic=7098.msg38858#msg38858 date=1252727478]
Somebody else broke the ice on this one, then I chimed in. Sounds a bit fishy. I've never seen a funeral procession (with the exception of a president) where the other lanes are prohibited from continuing (except ingersections on the route that are blockaded).

IF THE STORY IS TRUE, the bikers were out of line to harass the woman.

I'll bet within a couple of days, Snopes will have the poop on it.

[/quote]

This one was in the local paper in Monticello. Around here blocking off all lanes of the interstate in the direction the procession is traveling is standard for KIA's and units returning home by bus. LEO does this with a rolling road block at the end of the procession. The entrance ramps are also blocked. In rural areas on two lane roads and sometimes four lane roads, LEO closes the whole road until the procession has passed. I have personally been on a number of missions where this was done, some as long as 40 miles where we were escorting a KIA from the airfield to the funeral home.

You can click on the link in the original post and read the newspaper article.
 
It's unclear if she was minding her own business within traffic flow, then somehow floundered into the procession, or was ahead of the procession and "got caught" as they were about to implement the rolling road block, or what the heck.

Bad situation, but I'll bet she wasn't in any manner being disrespectful and was in the wrong place at the wrong time.

I'm going to reserve judgement, but lean toward the guys who confronted her as being over the top. I'm sure Carl, in the same situation, could get the point across with complete politenes, and do so in such a way that the women would have been totally apologetic and compliant with whatever was being asked in the way of maintaining her position till the procession passed.

There was an assumption that the woman was being deliberately disrespectful, but I don't read it there.
 
I think the implication of disrespect was when she stated

(1) they only close roads for the president which is a false assumption on her part,

(2) it was not a military funeral based on her not seeing any military vehicles on which I commented above. It was obviously a military funeral.

(3) She questioned the scheduling of the funeral during rush hour. The implication here is that schedule was not to her convenience.

As Geoff posted, she sounds like one of those Me, Me, Me, persons. Her started he email complaining about the funeral and the time of the funeral. The actions of the bikers came at the end of her email. The Sheriff stated that one of the bikers who confronted her was the brother of the deceased soldier. LEO has asked the PGR from time to time to assist them in blocking intersections when they do not have enough manpower.

I was not there so I do not know how impolite the the bikers were or were not. Bottom line, out of courtesy and respect, she had the option to simply pull over until the procession passes - the courteous and respectful thing to to do. Instead she chose to attempt to barge in and go her merry way. Since the bikers cut her off, she was obviously trying to force her way into or through the procession.

I saw a young driver try to cross traffic in a procession by driving around the fire truck blocking the intersection. A deputy happened along about that time. The last thing I saw was that driver being handcuffed while sprawled across the hood of his car.
 
I would agree with you initially GP....... except for the email she sent. In that email, she reveals herself as being the self-centered one only caring about her inconvenience.

This quote really stands out as being quite revealing: "This procession should never have been held during rush hour traffic!"
 
I love the part where he starts off with "while you were being inconvenienced....". She had to feel like the biggest pile of_____after reading that ! It HAD to have hit home what a self involved _____bag she is.
 

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